Just felt like blogging tonight;
nothing else to do because I've finished my tort non-assessed coursework.

I refuse to stress out about exam results.

I feel like singing,
but I've got a flatmate, and I want to be considerate.
:)

I'm lying.




It'll just pass us by...

Ah, but sometimes if love doesn't hurt, we'll never know how sweet it is..

i have no idea why i'm so sadomasochistic sometimes.

i see this ditch,
and i jump into it anyway.

and then i end up hurt,
and blame the world for it.



i should blame my stupidity,
and my silly old heart,
for letting me fall into that never-ending ditch of pain.


love, my foot.

One of the wisest pieces written, EVER.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
All men are not dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships… there is nothing cute about baggage.
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you, a relationship consists of two whole individuals, look for someone complimentary ..not supplementary.
Dating is fun… even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes, when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother’s house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar, but get to know others.

-Credits to Ashley, verbatim off her Tumblr.

to my sweet sweet valentine:






you're such an amazing sweetheart.

and i can only thank God that you said yes this year.

♥

Gong Xi Fa Cai!

Reunion dinner in Manchester with Tiong, Irene, Patricia, Hanaa, Jamie, Rachel, Malini, Naina.

Happy Year of the Rabbit 2011!

Much love.

Londres!

Had an amazing time in London last week!
Spent 4 days in Hatfield and London with amazing people.
Truckloads of things to do,
people to meet,
pictures to take,
and food to eat!

Took a train/tube/train down by myself to Hatfield where Isabelle picked me up,
cooked a couple of 'Malaysian' dishes and had a mini-dinner
before going off for a Burns' Night gathering at St. Peter's church!
Had a try of Haggis, which was amazing,
and ceilidh - dancing - done by brilliant and the sweetest instructors!
Then it was tipsy/shades/camwhoring time.
FUN!

Next day we spent the whole day in London,
picked Irene up at the Euston,
met with Alden before that for Indian cuisine,
more shopping (I love NewLook!),
then back to Hatfield for more cooking and gossiping!

Next day,
off again to London for sightseeing,
got a GORGEOUS pair of whitewashed jeans before that,
(and Gonçalo made breakfast for me even earlier at 5.30am.)
- London Eye, Westminster Cathedral, Westminster Abbey, Buckingham Palace
- Lunch with Joshua - crepes and then Hummingbird cupcakes!
- Baker Street , Trafalgar Square, Piccadilly Circus.

I couldn't walk any more after that,
falling asleep on the Tube!
Headed back to Hatfield to eat,
and sleep.

Spent those wonderful days having lots of clean, good fun,
and getting to know my Spanish twin.
I could not have asked for more!






I'm coming back, London - you be ready!